As parents of two young kids, finding time to reconnect without diapers, dishes, and daily chaos can feel nearly impossible. But after weeks of juggling schedules and late nights, we decided it was time for another much-needed parent’s getaway and we decided on heading to Secrets Tulum. Tulum had always been on our travel bucket list—the boho-chic vibe, the clear turquoise water, and the blend of culture and luxury pulled us in. So when we found out that Secrets opened a brand new location there and that the resort wanted to host us for a stay, we instantly knew it was the perfect match for our romantic retreat.
Over the years, we’ve come to love and trust Secrets Resorts for our couple’s escapes. Everything that the Secrets brand represents is exactly what we needed for us to reconnect as parents. In the past we have been to Secrets Resort in Jamaica as well as Secrets Riviera Cancun. Both of those properties were amazing, so naturally, we had high expectations going into this trip to Secrets Tulum Resort & Beach Club—and let me just say, it did not disappoint. In this blog post, I’m sharing our experience and thoughts on everything from the rooms to the pools and the dining and everything in between.



SECRETS TULUM RESORT & BEACH CLUB
Secrets Tulum Resort & Beach Club is a luxurious, all-inclusive adults-only resort set in the heart of Tulum’s tranquil jungle, seamlessly blending eco-chic design with upscale modern amenities. Over the years, I had always heard great things about Tulum’s aesthetic and all the great cenotes and experiences you can have there. So as my husband and I planned our next parent’s getaway, Tulum was at the top of the list. From the moment we arrived, the peaceful surroundings and welcoming staff set the tone for what would be an unforgettable vacation. The property is beautifully designed to mimic the natural elements of Tulum with lush vegetation, tranquil pools, and bohemian-inspired architecture that makes you feel like you’re tucked away in a dream.
HOW TO GET TO Tulum & THE Resort
We flew directly into the new Tulum International Airport, which made things incredibly convenient. The airport is very easy to navigate and flying in and out of Tulum super easy. In the past, there wasn’t the ability to fly into Tulum. You’d fly into Cancun and then drive nearly two hours, so this new airport cut our travel time significantly. After landing, we arranged a private transfer through Amstar – which is affiliated with Secrets Resorts and also does the excursions with Secrets. It was smooth, air-conditioned, and well worth the cost for an stress-free experience.




THE Rooms
There are several room types to choose from at Secrets Tulum, but we ended up staying the Preferred Club Rooftop Master Suite with Plunge Pool and if you’re looking at this suite, I would tell you to stop thinking about it and just book it because it is worth every penny. The suite was spacious and stylish, featuring neutral tones, artisanal decor, and modern comforts like a king-size bed, two bathrooms – one being the vast master bath with rain shower and bathtub and the other a guest bathroom – ,a dining area, a balcony with a tub, and, of course, the star of the show: our private rooftop area that including plenty of seating and plunge pool. As part of the Preferred Club, we also had upgraded amenities including a personalized mini bar, daily restocked snacks, and premium toiletries.
There are tons of other great room options at Secrets Tulum. You can find swim outs that I am often a huge fan of as well as other Club Level and “regular” rooms and suites. But if anything, one thing that I highly recommend you book for an in-room experience is the mimosa breakfast in bed. We decided that on our last morning in Tulum to do the mimosa breakfast in bed, which we arranged through the concierge, and it was something that I would recommend to anyone. The food was good and just being able to have breakfast in bed while watching some morning TV started the day off right.










THE Restaurants & Bars
One of the highlights of any Secrets resort is the food—and Tulum delivered on every level. With a wide variety of restaurants, we never had to eat the same thing twice unless we wanted to. We were only at Secrets Tulum for three nights so we didn’t get to dine at every restaurant, but I’m going to share our experience at the restaurants and bars we did eat and enjoy cocktails at.
BLUEWATER GRILL


JASMINE



MARKET CAFE
THE GROTTO
OLIO
RENDEZVOUZ
Some of the other places to eat and drink around the property that I heard good things about but we didn’t get to enjoy are
- Skybar – A rooftop bar gave us some of the best views on the property. We loved going up around sunset, sipping cocktails while watching the sky turn colors.
- Edgewater – A beachside bar that served frozen drinks, beer, and everything in between. The breeze, the sound of the ocean, and a piña colada in hand—what more could you want?
- Barefoot Grille – Perfect for casual poolside bites. We grabbed burgers, tacos, and fries without needing to change out of our swimsuits. Super convenient and always tasty.
- Veranda – This chic bar was our favorite place for a quiet pre-dinner drink. The mixologists were true artists, and the craft cocktails were both innovative and delicious.

THE Pools
The pools at Secrets Tulum are unlike any I’ve ever experienced. Designed to mimic natural cenotes, they were not only visually stunning but also had a calming, almost spiritual ambiance. There are several pools to choose from depending on your vibe—whether you want lively music and energy or a quiet, tucked-away spot for lounging. What I especially loved about the variety of pools is that each one had its own aesthetic and vibe. One pool was bigger and little more lively while others were smaller and a little more intimate. All of the pools have service, so you can get drinks and/or food brought to you if you’re interested. But one thing I did notice is the service typically didn’t start until the afternoon. So if you’re planning on getting to the pools early to claim your spot, just prepare to have to walk to the bar to get any drinks, if you happen to be looking for any.
One of the biggest perks of being in the Preferred Club was access to The Grotto, an exclusive pool with a secluded feel. The daybeds and cabanas around all the pools offered plenty of comfort, and we often spent entire days poolside, alternating between refreshing dips and long naps in the shade.





Zamna BEACH CLUB
One important thing to note: Secrets Tulum Resort is not located directly on the beach. Instead, the resort provides a convenient shuttle that takes you to the Zamna Beach Club, a beautifully designed extension of the resort that gives you all the beach vibes you came to Tulum for.
At the beach club, you’ll find sandy beachfront, multiple pools, and the Rosewater restaurant, which serves delicious food with a relaxed oceanfront vibe. There’s also a separate Preferred Club area, complete with upgraded loungers and attentive service. You can also reserve private cabanas, which we did—and it came with bottle service that made us feel like VIPs for the day. The reserved cabanas start around $250 USD but come with an entire bottle of your choosing – we went for tequila – and all the necessary juices, ice, fruits, etc. that you would want to make your drinks.
For those looking to stay beachside, Secrets Tulum does provide the ability for you to stay at the Zamna property which has different rooms and, of course, is away from the main property. Additionally, for those looking for the ultimate VIP experience, there is also a Villa that is available for stays but it doesn’t come at hefty price.



ENTERTAINMENT
Secrets Tulum brought the fun in all the right ways. Throughout our stay, we experienced a range of entertainment and activities that kept things fresh and exciting every day. By day, the entertainment team hosted pool parties with live DJs, fun games like trivia and water aerobics, and themed dance lessons. Wen ended up playing a few rounds of Bingo and going for the local bike tour while we were there.
At night, the resort came alive with unique cultural performances. One evening, we enjoyed a mesmerizing Mayan dance show that gave us a taste of local tradition. Another night featured an impressive circus performance complete with fire dancers and acrobats that had the whole crowd on their feet.
There were also more laid-back options for those who preferred a quieter evening—karaoke nights, movie screenings under the stars, and even a silent disco. It felt like there was something for every mood, and it added to the overall magic of the resort.

THE Spa
The spa at Secrets Tulum is an absolute must. Whether you’re into massages, facials, or full-on wellness rituals, the spa has you covered. Upon entering the spa, you immediately feel relaxed. The check-in process is super smooth and then once you are taken to the locker rooms to get yourself ready, you can wait in their calming waiting rooms as you prepare for your service. For us, we decided to take party of the hydrotherapy circuit. It is one of the most unique and rejuvenating services that we had experienced because it included some parts that we had not experienced in other hydrotherapy circuits. The circuit at Secrets Tulum Spa featured a dry sauna, an ice exfoliation area, warm and cold plunge pools, a jacuzzi, and rain showers—it was heavenly.
After our hydrotherapy circuit, we also treated ourselves to a couple’s massage. As parent’s of two boys, there is a lot of tension that we hold – especially in our neck and shoulders from carrying around the little one. The massage was wonderful and fitted to our needs. The tension melted away, and it gave us a rare opportunity to truly unwind together. The spa atmosphere is tranquil and gorgeously designed, adding yet another layer of luxury to the trip.





Preferred CLUB
Being part of the Preferred Club absolutely elevated our experience. Every time we stay at a Secrets Resort we opt for the Preferred club because it brings so many great amenities that not everyone staying at the resort received. If you’re considering going Preferred, I do recommend it. Beyond the upgraded room and rooftop pool, we had access to more private amenities that made everything feel more exclusive. From the personalized check-in (with champagne, of course) to the access to the Grotto and daily breakfast at Jasmine, the little perks made a big difference.
The Preferred Club Lounge was another favorite—ideal for grabbing a quiet drink or snack throughout the day. There were moments where we just wanted to relax and not be around much noise and also be near a bar, and the Preferred Club Lounge was the exact place to go to grab a couple of drinks and detach.




OUR OVERALL EXPERIENCE
Our overall experience at Secrets Tulum was nothing short of magical. Every detail—from the architecture to the service to the unforgettable experiences—made us feel like we were in a peaceful, luxurious bubble. What stood out most was that although the resort was busy and full of energy, it never felt crowded or overwhelming. It was the perfect balance of liveliness and relaxation. We especially loved the staff, everyone was absolutely attentive and I never felt that we were wanting for anything at any time. Even when we just started tho think we wanted something, someone was there ready to take care of it – which is exactly what we need for a parent’s getaway.
Tulum is on the rise, and it’s only a matter of time before it becomes one of those ultra-popular destinations that everyone is rushing to. Right now, it still feels like a hidden gem—especially with newer resorts like Secrets just beginning to shape the hospitality scene. If you’re even thinking about booking a trip, I highly recommend doing it soon before the secret is completely out.




WHY YOU SHOULD Book NOW
With the recent opening of Tulum’s new international airport and the development of upscale resorts like Secrets, Tulum is quickly becoming one of the most sought-after destinations in Mexico. But what makes it truly special right now is the sweet spot it’s in—not overly commercialized, yet filled with luxurious options and cultural richness.
Booking your stay at Secrets Tulum now means you get to experience the beauty and authenticity of this destination before it becomes overly saturated. Whether you’re planning a honeymoon, anniversary trip, or a much-needed romantic escape, this is your chance to enjoy it at its very best—while the jungle is still quiet, the service is still deeply personal, and the sunsets are still yours to savor in peace.
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